I am new here and was looking for other moms in the same station in life as myself. My daughter, Ashley, turns 1 on Wednesday. I started in the induction phase of Atkins on 9/10/04. I read all the info about breastfeeding and Atkins I could and deceided it was time regardless of when she weaned. I am tired of being overweight. My husband says he doesn't care about how I look but the sad fact is he does and is to polite to say anything. My six year old son isn't so polite. We taught him to tell the truth and boy did he ever. While school shopping for him, I took him to the mall (a rare occurance for me). When we got home later that day he asked why my butt was FAT! I could have died, MY SON, said that to me!!! I told him it was because I had his sister, which caused me to gain the weight(BIG FAT LIE, which he saw through). Imagine how I felt when he said, "but mom Ashley is almost one how come your STILL FAT". I was angry, sad and hurt all at the same time caused by the words of a child which were all true. I didn't know what to say to him so I put my educated mind to work that night. I am going to loose my "FAT BUTT"!
My friends are shocked I have a weight problem, because I always ate healthly "low-fat" whole foods. Heck, I was shocked the weight didn't melt off after the second baby. All my friends lost huge amounts of weight after successive children(piggy-backed kiddies (18-30months apart)). My weight never lowered and if anything it climbed to an all time high. I had every test done possible to figure out why the weight wouldn't go away with "proper diet and exercise". I had scheduled an appt. with a doctor to discuss the Lap-Band, when a good friend said I had nothing to loose (but the weight) by trying Atkins, even while breastfeeding.
So, 2 days later I started Atkins. I am doing great so far no cravings (passed the first two days), feeling more alert (even when Ashley is up all night), acne on face seems to be getting better (even before period) and my clothes are loose.
My son is funny, he says mom after school I want to go to McDonald's for a snack, I say sorry McDonald's makes my butt fat I can't go then he says Ok, for your butt we won't go(mom smiles in car).
But, now that I am doing this I worry sometimes about my daughter and the extra toxins she is consuming. I am in ketosis, heavy duty according to the LTS's. She is not ready to wean as she nurses 6-10 times a day(and night). I am not ready to wean her, as this is my last baby due to severe complications with my pregnancy with her. I want to nurse as long as we are both willing even into the third year. So, I guess I just need to put my heart at ease that this is okay for her. She does eat normal table foods in fact she demands it. But, she drinks only breastmilk and water. All other liquids have been refused.
Thanks for the shoulder to vent a concern.
M