Yesterday was the big family get together for BFs family. I brought a taco soup and had my mother (she come to all of them too) bring sausages. There was some dried out turkey, cheese, pickles and thats about it, that I could eat. I glazed over the foods that I could eat and went for what I could.
The desserts were in my head though. I know they would taste good, I also know that if I had just a couple of bites, I would eat till I was stuffed. I suddenly felt like I was being left out and didn't like the feeling. I went and sat in the recliner and descided to doze with all the old men.
My mother, whos a dieter when she feels like it was indulging in the junk food. She can really piss a person off about that! She tells me what I should and should not eat, talks about her blood sugar dropping and how she really shouldn't eat the desserts. Then she's standing there, got her first slice, devoured it. Made a big scene about how great it was. Then she wanted to "taste" my BFs cake, well, she ate it for him. Same with BF's fathers dessert, then she went after everything with a fork and just started picking off the dessert table. Later I asked about her desserts, she informed me she only had one piece of pie
But, before she left she's complaining about her blood sugar dropping and she feels terrible. Then complains about how I eat and how I should ate a deversafied meal. OMG, I wanted to flip.
Another lady complained that her blood sugar drops low and she gets shaky, so her Dr told her to eat more sugar to keep from feeling bad. I probably looked rude for ignoring her ranting but she was getting irritating. I am not spending the time to "teach" these people how to eat, if they wanted to know they would work on figuring it out. I saw way to much of that ladies butt crack, every time she bent over to pick up a kid or get up off the couch. Even the pervert of the family was trying to look away from her.
I know that I kept away from the junk was the best thing for me. But its like I'm choosing between my 2 loves and I hate it! I need to get past this, and hopefully I will. It doesn't bother me to see them eat junk, it bothers me that its so acessable to me and I know it tastes good. But, its poisen and I don't want to do that to myself.
Everyone knows I eat LC in the family, how come no one but my mother things to bring something that I can eat? Deviled eggs would be nice, lil weiners, fried chicken legs? SF cheesecake? But no, there were 10 different desserts sitting there (my oldest counted them) and a long line of foods that were jammed full of potatoes, breads, rice, more breads, and a couple sides that to me were unadentafieable.
BF says I should be happy that I want to be healthy and am taking steps in that direction. I look around at his family and out of 43 adults, there are 5 that are not obiese, 3 of them are heavy and the 2 that are left are so skinny they are truly anorexic. These people put the food away! They ate Moms sausages but alot of them turned their noses up at my soup! Even BFs father wouldn't try it. He told me, "I'm a meat and potatoes kind of guy." Lets not forget the breed, and desserts and what ever else he could fit in his . . . (clearing throat).
Ok, for feelings. . . anger pops in their first. I don't know why, except perhaps at myself. I chose this WOL for my health but I'm not always happy with my choice. Perhaps that others don't seem to take me in consideration as long as they can stuff themselves on junk. Hurt, that no one else cares enough to consider my food requests. Don't kid yourself, every single adult there has asked about my eating choices in the past. Jelousy perhaps? Don't know. Deffanitely stressed about the junk there and I wouldn't eat it. BF asked me why I chose not to indulge, I told him, "You tell me its silly to indulge after all I've gone through to get this far. I'f I indulge it will be a really rough 3-4 days getting back on track and I'll be moody, emotional and in hell till it settles." He said, "good, keep that in mind and you'll be happy for it tomorrow."
A lot of the ladies and a few of the men that was there asked how come I don't eat dessert, or how come I didn't try there ____________. I explained again to each why I was avoiding the other foods and I would be more than happy to eat everyones offerings if it was a meat, veggie or fruit. Thats usually where the conversation fell to an end.
Next time I'm bringing fried chicken legs. They will indulge on my offerings and I will suffer because I can only eat what I bring. Am I whining?