Hiya Nancy. The prognosis is probably not good for kitty--she's part siamese, they have a tendency towards mammary cancer, she's almost 9, which is about when they get it, and it's growing fast. It's also possibly also made some muscle tissue involvement. So surgery would likely involve the equivalent of a radical mastectomy and removing some muscle tissue, plus I think chemo? Which in addition to probably going way beyond anything we could afford, begins to sound a bit cruel to put an animal through, to me.
The husband is taking her to an animal oncologist today (it's only $120 so we figured we could at least get the full info) but we're both expecting the worst.
Needless to say, this is making for some complicated emotional issues.
For example, usually I would go to Mom for comfort in this situation. I mean, she's my Mom. However, I don't want to upset her, especially with the weird coincidence. On the other hand, I am simply awful at disguising my emotions. The day we got the news her scans were all clear (awesome) was the day the vet said the cat definitely had cancer. So Mom gives me the good news, I then burst into tears (first of relief) and then blab about the cat because I suck at keeping things to myself.
Anyway--steeling myself for the worst on the cat, but Mom's prognosis is looking very hopeful. She started the chemo day before yesterday, and so far she's tolerating it better than we'd hoped. It's still early, and she says stuff does taste weird, but no nausea that is getting past all the nausea meds, no fatigue yet (beyond what she already had from stress).
We have still gotten some mixed signals on whether mastectomy will be necessary; she's also getting the targetted HER2 hormone therapy. I'm thinking it probably will be necessary.
She's taking the vitamin D but I think she kind of tossed any lowcarb thoughts out the window, especially when they warned her that stuff she eats now may be unappealing indefinitely thereafter. Unfortunately she is doing sugar (gatorade at least). I feel like I've given her all the info as bluntly as I can, and I guess I am not willing to take it the level of actual nagging--she has to decide for herself how she's going to approach this all.
Thanks as usual for listening.