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Originally Posted by I<3splenda
I missed where you said what meds your son is on & whether or not he has a therapist that he likes.
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Zyprexa, for the last 3 months; Pexeva, for the last 1 month; Geodon, for the last 4 days. He told his pdoc he was concerned about weight gain on Zyprexa, so she's added the Geodon and will gradually phase out the Zyprexa. I'm glad. I'm grateful that the Zyprexa finally brought his psychosis under control, but frankly the drug scares me.
He doesn't have a therapist. I've urged him repeatedly to ask his pdoc or case manager for CBT or DBT, but he won't. For the last three years he's been resistant to meds. Now suddenly they're his savior. He was clearly better last night, and we both think it's the Geodon. He doesn't seem to understand there's a downside to the medications, and they won't solve everything. But drugs are easy. Changing your diet or your way of think is hard work and doesn't show immediate results.
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Originally Posted by I<3splenda
It sounds like your son could be experiencing anosognosia.
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From the wiki article: "The three kinds of insight that are most vulnerable to severe mental illnesses are the awareness:
that a person is suffering from a mental disorder
of the effects of medication; and
of the social consequences of having a mental disorder. "
He used to have the first, but now seems aware that he's ill. Now, though, he's suffering from the last.
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Originally Posted by I<3splenda
Your son may benefit from finding a Bipolar support group. Some are "formal," like those through DBSA, but you might find others in your community through places like meetup.com.
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Another thing I've suggested that he won't follow up on.
I feel very frustrated, but he may just have to figure this stuff out for himself. He wants to quit the diet, because he wants to eat potato chips and be able to drop in on his aunt and uncle and eat whatever their eating. I think I'll just let him stop. He doesn't believe it will work anyway.
I have two cousins who are totally disabled by this illness. I just don't want that to be my son. I want him to fight back.
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Living with Bipolar disorder is hard, but loving a person with Bipolar disorder is harder.
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I recently took a DBT class with my younger son. I just covered the section on radical acceptance. I think it's time to radically accept that J is an adult who will make his own decisions and have his own successes and failures.