Thu, Feb-09-06, 16:39
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Senior Member
Posts: 803
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 263/241/185
BF:Above Avg.
Progress: 28%
Location: SLC, UT
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Well as the short round kid all throughout jr high school I had my share of being refered to as waddles, chubby, lard a$$ and the list could go on. However I could take it, so I thought, looking back I sincerely believe that is why I struggle with self confidence.
The one time I remember the most was when about 8 guys from work went out to lunch. We all sit down to lunch and the waitress comes to get drink orders. As I did back then, I ordered a diet coke. As the waitress walks away, this jack arse who is still living his jock days from highschool, says, " Isn't that funny that the fattest guy here orders the diet coke". Well it sent me over the top, I told him that he was a jack arse, and got up and walked out. I don't know what it was, but that was the most it ever got to me.
Another big reminder that sent me over the edge was when my grandmother, whom I hadn't seen for some time, came to my parents for Thanksgiving. The first thing she did was look at my waist line and say, " Boy your not going hungry, are you". The only consulation to me, was that she was this way to everyone of her kids and grandkids. We now go to family reunions, and even at the size I am now, I'm one of the smallest and that is out of over 100 people.
I have vowed not to do that with my kids. I'm leading by example. I will never even suggest my son is getting chubby to his face, but I will suggest more time outside playing. I can't criticize his eating, because he eats extremely well and does not like candy. But I will never ruin his self image if I can help it.
I didn't plan on going this long, but I guess when something strikes me, I just have to speak my mind. Sorry for monopolizing the thread.
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