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Originally Posted by Rosebud
I think quite a few of us could take offence at your wording here, Wooo. Very few of us "choose" to have problems such as hormones, thyroid dysfunction, drug side effects and so on.
Your weight loss was very easy, partly because you are young. Please don't judge those of us who are older and have medical problems by your standards.
But of course that's not at all what this thread is actually about. As I see it, Tater simply meant that we should take advice given for what it is, not because of who has given it. It has bothered me also to see people post that they look at someone's stats before bothering to take the advice given.
Just my 2 cents...
Rosebud
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This is what I'm talking about.
Why must I "choose careful wording" and never insinuate those who are heavier are often (but not always)
choosing comfortable & convenient behaviors that result in cessation of weightloss, meanwhile I am not shown the same respect by being told and I quote "my weight loss was very easy"?
I respect older people have slower metabolisms, and I respect that people with diseases have slower metabolisms. But my metabolism isn't exactly a racehorse, either. To get to the weight I am I had to eat near 1100 cals (and I am VERY meticulous about counting), I increased activities and reduced "conveniences", like driving, to almost nonexistence. To maintain it I eat much lower cal than many of those in the TDC who are maintaining heavier weights (1400-1500).
I never take full portions of anything. I divide protein bars into quarters, a quarter is a treat-serving.
I never use full fat products. The delicious nut-meal confections with full fat cream cheese and heavy cream? The delicious rich creamed spinach dishes, quiches, etc, big steaks, buffalo wings, fried foods...
A memory, unless I want a sliver-portion or am having a rare treat (which I have to compensate for).
The bottom line is the number one factor distinguishing the TDCers who make it to goal from the TDCers not, is more often
sacrificing more.
It's possible I could be wrong, but you know, it's also possible you could be wrong that it's "easy" for us, and that we are "lucky" and you are not. That's never even considered but we always hear about how hard the slow losers have it and how easy everyone else does...
which IMO is very offensive to
me as I don't appreciate having my struggles and accomplishment trivialized. Maybe I'm being oversensitive but my whole life I've been told "I coulda done it any time I wanted to", that it is so
easy, and to me this sounds like more of the same.