Bonnie and Colleen,
I am wondering how you are both handeling the rejection here? When I went through this years ago, I have to be honest and say I think
that nearly killed me more than anything. The other stuff was bad enough, but to be totally rejected, by the person I thought loved me, was the most devistating. My self worth was crushed. Even to this day, the pain from it still needles, me when I think back on it.
It just amazes me Bonnie, after reading how deceptive he was, allowing you to play along, and actually having you take some pity on him. Wow, where was his head at? What an ass! I am sorry for you that he was so mean. Nothing like being stuck with a knife and then having someone twist it!
But I think what Tofi said is so
enlightening.... on the other side of all this heartache, more likely, there is good stuff.
Usually when God closes one door, another one opens. At least I have found this to be true.
Both of you "keep your socks up", you will make good decisions in the long run...and your lives will probably take a turn for the better, especially after you both had the opportunity to get rid of the "slugs" that tried to take you down.
You have lots of people here praying for you both.
Osuz