Hi Wanda,
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Originally Posted by wcollier
Has DH had his hormone levels tested?
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Not that I can recall...he has had so many damn tests over the past 6 years, it is insane, but again, I know you must know about that. Thank you for the tip, we will explore that with our GP (FMS supportive GP -- he is fantastic) at our yearly in April, and I will buy the book you mentioned as well -- thanks!
The last testing he had done was genetic testing and also some tests looking a rare form of basically food poisoning that sets in and causes symptoms similar to FMS. We were so optomistic that this new rheumotologist would find something, but alas, again, everything came back "you are a perfectly healthy person according to the tests." However, this rheumatologist did confirm/believe DH has FMS or some phantom disease like it, but he also said DH was already doing everything right, so there wasn't much more he could offer that we didn't already know. We learned a long time ago to try everything, but not get our hopes up too high about anything because it is such a let down when all the tests consistently come back as "congratulations, you are in perfect health." I know that sounds INSANE -- most people would be happy at those types of tests, but I also know you probably understand that feeling!
We were so optomistic about the genetics testing because DH got FMS from wicked food poisoning. He has come so far from his worst point so we try to stay optomistic about that fact. Things that did work for him were:
An osteopath/homeopath early on helped get rid of the nausea and gastro issues he had from the beginning. She did a history and was the one who pointed to the food poisoning as the root cause, so she used some arsenicum album to get rid of the "toxins". This worked well and really got rid of a lot of his issues to the point where his pain instead of being widespread and very, very acute became localizee in the left shoulder/neck and more like a dull pain and stiffness generally on the left side. This was a major improvement.
The Elavil/Atavan combination has helped immensely with his sleep. He is on very low dosages as he is not a person who likes to take drugs, so from day 1 his goal was to get off of them. He hasn't been successfull in getting off of them yet, but from where he started, the doses are the closest he can get to 0.
The chiropractic adjustments have really helped him with the pain and stiffness, but it comes back so the adjustments are a constant thing. Luckily, I have excellent insurance which covers all of the treatments -- that is a major relief for us since his chiro bills before we were married were 1500+ per year.
Exercise has helped a lot as well with the tiredness, stiffness and pain. He has never missed ONE DAY in 6 YEARS!!!! If that isn't discipline, I don't know what is -- not matter how tired he feels or how much pain he is in, he does it. I admire him so much.
We purchased a triggerizer and thera-cane to try to relieve the pressure points (there was a book on myofascial pain syndrom and FMS that recommended that). I rub his shoulders and neck each night for 30 - 40 minutes on the trigger points he points out to me to help releive the pressure. He says this helps a lot so we do it each night, but it is difficult on both of us. Thankfully he is working from home now, when he was working out of the house the "rubs" (as we call them) were lasting about 90 minutes each night, which took a major toll on me, him and our relationship for about a year. We are so lucky that he can work from home now, and that I have a very good job that if he could not work, we would still be able to live with some very minor cutbacks.
The Guai, the jury is still out for us on that one, he has been taking it for 2+ years, we do see improvements and changes and cycling, and we have noticed some general improvements in his "bounce back" abilities (i.e. if we have a rough day physically for him like a wedding or something, it used to take him weeks to bounce back to the level he was at before, but now it takes a day or two).
The meditation helps with sleep and calming the mind, he also does that every day.
There is a graveyard full of things that didn't work for him, but that's basically the list of things that he has had success on so far, but it's a daily struggle.
Thank you so much for being so supportive and helpful. It is difficult to talk about this with many people because they just don't understand what he goes through on a daily basis, and what we go through as a couple (we've been together since 18, so we've had 8 FMS-free years, and 6 FMS-full ones). With FMS, you can't take a normal activity like loading the dishwasher for granted and so many people don't get that, especially since DH is still young and looks like the picture of good health.
Sorry for the ramble, I guess I let it all spill out, eh??!!