What's gourmet about a mock danish? They take less than 5 minutes to prepare and use very basic ingredients; cream cheese, egg and Splenda plus whatever flavoring you happen to like (or none at all, if you prefer).
I also work full time and have two daughters in second grade plus a hungry husband, but I still find time to prepare a tasty meal every night (note I said tasty, not gourmet). It takes no longer to shop for many of these recipes than shopping for any other dish you would want to prepare homemade. Not that I'm cooking chicken thighs with bacon, cream and thyme every night, but on weekends when I have more time, it's a nice change of pace from plain meat.
OTOH, it's not a lot of extra work to add some water to the pan drippings to deglaze the pan, pour in a little heavy cream, add a few shakes of whatever herbs and spices tickle my fancy and simmer for a few minutes to make a sauce for whatever meat I've chosen to prepare for the evening while the vegetable finishes cooking.
There's nothing wrong with keeping your meals simple. There are many recipes in the recipe forum from people who are also probably very busy that are easy and quick to prepare and don't require any strange or fancy ingredients.
If time is in short supply, how about using your crockpot to ease the burden? I find it a great time-saver, especially during the busy school year and it's always nice to come home to the smell of meat cooking and know that most of your work for dinner is already done.