When I started Winsor pilates, I was so fat and out of shape, I had to do all the moves in the 'modified for the physically inept' mode.
Some moves I couldn't do at all.
Kept at it though. Sometimes just repeating a move I COULD do, over and over.
Next thing I knew, I COULD do the regular moves (mind you, there was a LOT of groaning, moaning and whining going on in the beginning.
So much, in fact, that DH once rushed out to 'help' me. LOL).
These days I do the winsor body sculpting workout most mornings and it's given me back flexibility (not only can SEE my toes, but I can touch 'em!
), strength, tone, and kept my skin shrinking along with the rest of me.
DON'T GIVE UP! (I mean, let's face it, the alternative's NOT GOOD) Follow Nancy's advice and try some gentle yoga. Try modifying the pilates moves into something you CAN do.
Practice really DOES make perfect! and skinny. and HOTTTTTTTTT and um...perky. Yah, that's it! practice makes ya PERKY!