Wow, I'm really impressed at your weight loss. Congratulations, you rock!- be proud.
It is so inspiring to hear of success and see pictures of before and after. I've spent the last four days reading internet stuff about low-carbing, like 10 hours a day (my brain is frying
) and I can't get enough of that. I'm in Oklahoma also, and am just starting out with about the same amount to lose as you already did, so I'm encouraged by your success.
It's also cool to hear it from a man, because I notice that in general, the low-carb sites and links seem to have a great deal more women than men, and while weight loss is weight loss, I think each gender has its own cultural needs for bonding with similar others.
I have known a number of people who have done low-carb diets, and in every single case, if they truly did it properly they lost tons of weight as desired (given they didn't have some major undiagnosed health issue).
And if they didn't follow it properly, they didn't lose weight (usually they did initially, then ceased). Most of those blamed the diet and would tell everybody they did everything right and it just didn't work for them... but really the issues is that they just wanted to be in denial and avoid counting carbs in all sorts of things, no matter how specific Dr. Atkins was about that.... the programming of our culture overwhelmed them and they started rationalizing that hey, vegetables and salads are good for you, so as long as they're eating things good for them.
Those which succeeded ALL seem to say, "Just do it. Read the whole book and follow the instructions properly." That reminds me of a saying, "Success is a matter of luck. Ask any failure." (Of course, winners will say they were successful because they worked for it!) It is inspiring to me that there is such a down-to-earth "follow the instructions and it will work" concept to all this.
Now, about the loose skin. I worry about this, as I'm female and it's an even bigger deal for women I think (maybe that is just my bias). I have asked many people about this and searched archives all over the web for comments on this.
Here is what I've gathered, for whatever it's worth:
Supplementary Selenium is said to be very good for skin. Too much can be bad.
All forms of antioxidents which fight free radicals are said to be good.
Oxygen in the form of lots of water is said to be critical, as is oxygen in the form of better or specialized breathing (see "Oxycise!").
Actual Vitamin E oil on the skin is said to be good.
Body building is said to be good.
All of the above combined together over a period of time is said to be great. I have read some people saying they lost large amounts and the skin DID shrink down decently over time but it really took time.
I don't know. I'd love it if you'd put the ideas into practice and let us know, so by the time I get to serious weight loss I'll have some great advice about it.
My own very subjective response is that I would try all these things for a period of time before surgery on the skin (I assumed the surgery you mentioned was for the health/injury problem not the skin). I really hate the idea of surgery if not necessary. Skin isn't dead stuff, it's a multi-layer very alive organ filled with nerve endings and chopping sections of it off is hopefully a very last resort.
When I was pregnant (and heavier than I am now), I had extremely high blood pressure, and I was so IMMENSELY bloated that literally I was like a tube. I didn't have fat ankles, I didn't have any ankles period, I had the figure of a penguin. My upper arms were simply massive beyond belief. After I had the baby, my blood pressure dropped to normal literally in a period of hours, and the docs gave me a massive diuretic to get rid of all the fluid. To say my skin hung was an understatement. When I put out an arm, you could see the bone at the top, and then this huge sack of skin like six inches long, and then the fat was down at the bottom like some sand in a bag... many inches of skin just swinging, it was so horrible, I looked at it and I cried. The doctor told me it would not go more than partly away. But it did over a couple years, without me doing anything to that end. I think maybe (checking out my arms here) the skin is not as pulled-tight as it might have been otherwise, but it did shrink. I've known friends who were very overweight AND got pregnant, then had the baby AND lost weight, leaving them with a helluva lot of swinging skin in the gut area; over 2-3 years it shrank, and again probably not as 'tight' as it might have been otherwise, but they didn't need surgery.
The stretch marks -- ah, my body is a road map. Probably not a whole helluva lot we can do about that.
Regards,
PJ