Hmmm.
I've sat here for several minutes now, reading and re-reading my post.
When someone says "you must be loving life," it generally means that person is wishing they could have what you have.
When a person lives on the ocean, one who lives in the mountains, equally beautiful, but wished they lived on the ocean could say, "you must be loving life." When a person vacations in Rome, while another goes to Disney World, but wishes they could afford to go to Rome, one could say, "you must be loving life."
Try as I might, I'm unable to imagine a negative meaning to "you must be loving life."
I can't tolerate that many carbs while eating 2000 calories. I wish I could. The only way I can eat the number of calories (~2000) I need to stay satiated *and* not gain weight is very low carb.
And while a grapefruit isn't my carb of choice, I know a lot of people that love them, and the thoughts of a juicy grapefruit is like pure candy to them. But there are things I do miss, that won't ever be part of my diet again, simply because, whether a plan allows them or not, I can't tolerate them.
So...I eat more fat, which apparently I can tolerate. And I do Atkins and I try to build my life around it. And it's hard. But that's the body and the metabolism I have been given.
I was curious about your fat intake, b/c I have a theory that when a person eats more carbs, they generally need to eat less fat, and also vice versa, b/c of the way the body handles those 2 macronutrients in the presence of each other. That's all. I'm always curious about what other people are doing, especially when it has worked so well for them, as SB has for you. I didn't realize that SB recommends 50% of calories from fat, and I'm glad to know that, b/c I've always wondered.
I'm not sure who "you guys" are, but I'm sad to find out that I'm apparently of them. I have never viewed it as Atkins vs South Beach. I always assumed a person chose their plan b/c it contained foods they like and can tolerate. I have steered people toward SB when they said there were carbs they were missing and they didn't like "all the fat."
So anyway, I am sorry to have said something that produced guilt. I know how hard this journey is, and guilt is something that makes it harder. And good support is hard to come by.
I felt the need to come and explain myself, just in case in other readers may have felt that my post was inappropriate, b/c I never mean for that to happen. Never.
Again, I apologize from the bottom of my heart. I had no idea that that would make you feel that way.
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