I think the one thing most girls on here can relate to is this one sentence
" She is such a beautiful girl..... BUT "
insert your most heard phrase here ____________________
" If only she were thinner " I think is mine and probably most others on here.
I am sort of struggling with this right now anyways, because I think to myself, Why did I start this diet?? Did I do it because I was tired of hearing that remark?? Because I wasn't getting any compliments with my increasing waist line?? Because society deemed me overweight? Or because I just had enough of it all?
Am I giving in by loosing weight? Giving in to what then? Public pressure to look a certain way.. or just because I didnt feel good about myself anymore..
I would like to say it was only because I didnt feel good about myself anymore, but hindsight I believe all of the above were factors if not motivation to do so.
People can be cruel and most overweight people can tell you, that yes they are discriminating as well.
As I get down to my goal weight I sometimes think about people who have made comments like the above and I feel sorry for them.
Because like my favorite bumper sticker says " I may be fat, but your ugly, and I can always loose weight "