Can’t help yourself?….
Pauline Nordin |
Pauline's Ramble... | Thursday, 13 May 2010
Few excuses sting more in my eyes than the common “I can’t help myself”. What do you mean by “you cannot help yourself”, you are some kind of toddler who does not know the hand gets burned when you put it on the hot stove? Did you stop maturing mentally at 3 years old? If the mind is weak then go strengthen it! That’s what we do with our muscles so do it with your power engine inside your skull too. You are nothing without a strong mind. You fall victim for your own lame incapacity of adhering to your own plan of action.
You know why it feels so damn good to be in shape? Because it shows you’ve got it all under control. You are the boss of YOU. Think about it, when it comes to getting buff and cut, the only one stopping you is YOU. So if you never get any results… well, it’s because of YOU.
Setting goals and achieving them one after another becomes PROOF that you are in charge. It’s attractive. It’s what everyone wants. Everyone wants to be attractive and successful.
A lot of people email me and say they would look just like me if they had time to go to the gym two times a day. I can only say “great!” because I know it’s all talk. People forget it’s not just training. It’s a lifestyle where EVERY choice you make with diet and exercise will either generate results or hold you back. So, when you see someone who “has it all”, you are watching someone with a strong mind who consciously chooses the right choices.
People love sabotaging for themselves. You eat clean and exercise and then when you get somewhat close to your so called perfect shape you CHEAT. You blow your diet. So you can start over again. This is a defense mechanism. By never accomplishing your goals you stay comfortably in your comfort zone. It’s pressure up on the top, if you reach your all time super body then you will want to keep it and that takes work.
Self sabotage is what makes you average instead of exceptional. And I don’t know what the love for gaining and losing weight nonstop comes from, I sure never had it. But it’s such a waste of time!!! Why spend all that time on cardio machines and diet like a maniac just to blow it when you are unmotivated? How hungry can you be, right? You are not starving! You get meals daily.
It must be a lack of insight. It must be a lack of understanding that makes you all fail when it comes to reaching your fitness goals. Or maybe it’s a chosen attitude? Maybe you don’t really want to, it’s more a fantasy? What do I know?
But one thing I know is right and it’s the fact you get what you put in.