Sun, Apr-18-04, 14:49
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Staying Put
Posts: 6,174
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Plan: Atkins/CarbCycling
Stats: 299/252/180
BF:
Progress: 39%
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"HELPFUL" People and their "HELPFUL" comments
I'm so sad today.
Today I realised that even my mother doesn't understand this weight issue that I have, along with thousands of other people.
I am sick and tired of people telling me that if I eat less I'll lose weight!!! "Well, if you did more excersise"
"It's a shame really, you have such a pretty face, but you're hiding it under all that fat"
"I'm only concerned about the health implications"
"I'm only saying this for your own good."
"Men just don't like big women you know, they might say they do..."
"you can't see yourself from behind"
....and so it goes on, the constant barage of 'helpful' comments that drive me MAD.
I am totally poisoned by carbs, carbs and me don't mix, we are totally incompatible and I needed to get rid of them, but it's only through being here that I grew to understand that.
I have PCOS which is not an excuse, it's a fact. I suffer with hormonal problems which are unrelated to the PCO, and these do not help the weight gain.
Before going onto this way of eating, I DID eat a balanced diet - lots of fish white meats, veg and fruit, and I estimate only 30% of my weight gain was through over eating. I led a healthy life style, of bike riding and country walks, by no means was I the type to sit night after night with a pizza and a coke infront of the TV being a couch potato, OCCASIONALLY I had a treat.....but knowing all of this..my mum (even though she is very supportive) STILL said to me today, make sure you don't eat all of that tub of ice cream, or low-carb or not, it won't stay off of your hips you know" And I felt like screaming at her "for goodness sake, I WOULDN'T HAVE EATEN ALL OF THE TUB BEFORE THE DIET!!"
And that's what makes our lives a hell of a lot harder, people thinking that because we are fat it means we are gluttons too, that we sit in eating and eating for the sake of it. I am sure there are people who have done that but I'm not one of them and it comes to something when my family start critisizing and looking at me in that way.
We are all human beings - we all need encoragement, not chastising...
Enough said. Rant over. Thanks for listening.
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