Wed, Apr-18-07, 06:06
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empress of fashion
Posts: 16,339
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 178/161.5/145
BF:
Progress: 50%
Location: Iowa
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Morning, singles. We have an appointment, later this morning with the counselor (ex, me and Sweetpea). Last session she suggested we come up with some things we would like to see changed in the other parent. It was difficult to narrow down but here it is:
1. provide a bedroom for the girls
2. encourage Sweetpea to look at the positives
That last one just hit me last night. My ex likes to commiserate with SP. She complains about living here, whines to him and he then makes it his mission to rescue her. I have spoken to her about how things are different at this household and her father's and she tells me that he doesn't get as concerned about things as we do - like wether her socks match or not. Thats fine. To a child this is a big issue, however an adult should not turn it into a huge dilemma and threaten court proceeds to address it. So! #2 is kind of multi-faceted - not only is it to stop his encouraging her to be unhappy but hopefully it will help her to see that things aren't as dire as she tends to believe.
She doesn't particularly like school, either, so hopefully by our focusing on positives we can make many things in her life look a whole lot better.
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