First and foremost- I am good- just got behind the 8 ball busy in crap that had to happen.
Second:
TRIG((((((((hugs))))))))))- I am so happy you are coming here and writing out what you feel. I know that a natural feeling would be to just clam up and be still and say nothing. I am so happy you are not doing that.
Everyone of us CAN RELATE to EVERYTHING you are saying!
You are not going bat sh*t- this is hard. And even harder when you have to cook for those that don't want to the same for themselves.
I actually dated a guy for a few times- you want to know what the deal breaker was? He was overweight (I can handle that)- but he didn't care and ate garbage. I did the fast forward thing in my head. We actually had conversation about health and all. his thoughts- "ya gotta die of something"- NEXT. I get it. It's hard
But here you are. I would love too give you the magic wand. If there was one I would have used it. But I did lose my weight married with kids that ate crap. For ME I had to say I just don't care what they eat- I am worth it. And so are you my friend! You gotta get to a place that no matter what anybody else does does you are in it for you and you alone! BUT you are not alone! We are here for you, science supports you! You are frustrated I know! WE have all had out F*it days. But lets holds hands and walk out of that!!!!!!!
You are not CRAZY!!!!!!!- What is crazy is all the information you know and the zombies walk around and tell you different! Lets tap in 3 weeks! Over vodka and Diet Coke!
NIC- I love what and angel you are. you have the biggest heart I have ever seen. you are right we lose that vulnerability the older we get. May you never lose the willing to give!
I hope you have a super time in AZ!!!!
LORI- I SOOOOOOOO miss you when you are on one of your trips and you and I don't fight for morning post!
I'm so sorry your arm is such a hang up! you are so active and I know you are missing much of everything . I doubt highly your booty is bigger than mine. that should give you all a yeah- my booty is not the biggest- I will take that prize! HHAHAHA- Whatever it is what it is!. This big butt girl is still coming.
Girl I would work the help from the hubby!!!!!!!
BLUE-- I had smile from one end of face to the other just seeing you run around with THE WIND UNDER YOUR WINGS !!!!!!!
I am so happy for you!!!!!! What a difference a day makes! I am SOOOOOOOOOO thrilled.- I owe you a drink too! So we concelebrate all that in 3 weeks!
I hope you prepared your rubs for a bear hug!
You GO GAL!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You ladies are just the absolute best! I'm serious. You know I was in a bubble bath today thinking if I could buy anything in the world what would it be if money no object. What I picked can't be bought.
It hit me like a ton of bricks.
I was having a moment of bubbles and just reflecting on what is the most important thing to me. TIME- it can't be bought, bartered. However, it can be shorted with choices we make.
Here is my thoughts regarding time /lifespan. We are all given a certain MAX allowable days. Only the universe knows. But we have the ability to cut those days short- by lifestyle I won't go into. But it is choice.
However, I do think we have the ability to live a high quality of life base on choices as well.
What got me on this mind thinking was a friend of mind that had a birthday a few days ago and was bitching about turning 40. that is 13 years younger than me. Wow- how much would I pay for an additional 13 years Priceless ?????????
I hope you don't find this a morbid post- to the contrary. What can I do within my power to increase the quality of the time I have. Doesn't matter if it's 10, 20 , 30 years or 6 months we never know. But this I do know. I have been seeing some of my patients in real time face to face. I do not want to end up in that position, due to poor choices. I am not going to go here about the job.
Just to say I think we underestimate what we can do for ourself.
Also to say- always tomorrow............ well........
I got my taxes done. Broke even within 10 dollars. Truly it was 10 bucks. By the time I paid Turbo Tax- I owed 10.00 to state.
Totally on plan today. I am only going to talk about in the moment. I can't say about tomorrow- but today, it was good.
The sun finally came out!!!!!!!!!!! I should be cool and finally sun for the next few days with rain rolling in Wed.
I am thankful everyday =for this this and you ladies!
Tonight, watching a Star is Born! - can't wait. I did watch Rhapsody last night. About the start of QUEEN. It was good, and sad.
BLUE- I need you to edit my posts!!!!!!!!!!-