Tue, Jul-13-10, 07:41
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Senior Member
Posts: 1,172
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Plan: VLC/Carnivore
Stats: 369/301/299
BF:too much.
Progress: 97%
Location: Eastern Ontario, Canada
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Originally Posted by missjess
Thanks so much for the kind words, Deb! Greatly appreciated. I totally agree with you about how you still feel in your mind unworthy of their attention for some odd reason..we shouldn't feel that way. I, for instance, sabotage myself constantly. For example, I'm talking to a guy right now that is amazingly gorgeous..I'm talking bronzed skin and an 8 pack hot..yet I feel inferior to him and that he must be pulling some sort of sick joke on me to even want to be seen walking around with a bigger girl. Seems to me like he'd rather have a girl that looks hot in a bikini that he could sport at the lake..I dunno. I'll stop doing this to myself one day, hopefully!
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Jess, these feelings will fade, I think. At one time, I felt the same but then I just realized: hell, I'm a great catch! I was about your age, and yes, I was a bit heavy, but I lived on my own, owned my own (new) car, worked two jobs, was putting myself thru college, could cook and was not hideous looking (but not even close to how cute you are!). When you adopt an attitude like that, good men flock to you. Don't compromise...find a man worthy of you!
I found mine. And he has a six pack too! Even after ten years! On top of that, we've still stuck together through a lot proving he loves me not my tiny butt. AND He still chases me around the table a couple of times a week! LOL.
You'll get there for sure.
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