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Tue, Dec-26-06, 08:35
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Posts: 1,738
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Plan: Atkins
Stats: 245/241/170
BF:40%/31%/29%
Progress: 5%
Location: Michigan
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It is still hard for me! There are times when I want to just dive into a big pile of battered fish, or a Giant bucket of buttered popcorn at the movies, but I finally learned that food can't stop you from feeling the way you feel. I found my self esteem. It started by doing the hardest thing I can think of for someone who is overweight. I stripped naked, and looked at myself in a full length mirror. I really took a long, hard look at myself. Backside, front side, sideways, and realized that I don't feel on the inside how I look on the outside. I wanted to do more things with my kids, I wanted to do more things FOR ME. When I started this way of eating, I told my husband, who is VERY overweight, that I wasn't doing this for him to be more attracted to me, or to be more proud of me, but I was going to loose the weight JUST FOR ME. At first, he was offended, he accused me of doing it to attract other men, (yes, we were having problems for awhile), but soon, he saw that it was working, and no matter what he said, I was still doing this for me. We were able to work through our issues, and I still am going to hit my goal someday. You have to do it for yourself, not to please anyone else. As soon as you are able to do that, you will succeed.
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