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Originally Posted by Hybrid
It may be trivial, but there is a serious emotional element involved linked to our drive for survival itself. Many people equate "restrict calories" with "be hungry," and hunger is a sign that the body may die if not fed. Very few people want to die. Very few people enjoy being hungry. I've noticed from other, some who are worried about not getting enough calories if they stay in deep ketosis, that high-fat diets are excellent for hunger control. If one eats a moderate amount of protein and greatly restricts carbohydrates, one can eat a very low amount of calories and not be hungry. Some people see this as a selling point for a low-carb/high-fat diet, others see it as a potential danger.
I believe the stomach can be "trained" into feeling full with smaller amounts of food, especially if one eats slower, drinks more water, and/or adds fiber rich low-calorie vegetables to ones diet. "The Rosedale Diet" also gives additional techniques for controlling hunger by restoring leptin sensitivity.
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I agree.
Many of us embrace LC because we have unconscious hangups about feeling hungry. LC attracted us because it made us not feel hungry OR we heard it would.
As an obese person, your hunger comes to represent a deep inner fear that there is something defective about you. It represents failure, it represents weakness, fear, uncertainty. We are told flippantly "god why are you so fat, just eat less" as if we were making a decision to desire food excessively, all the time, and be fat. Many have tried dieting without controlling carbohydrate sensitivity, felt the out of control weakness of failing those diets, the deep shame and self loathing of weight regain.
Obese people are made to feel worthless every day, by ourselves and others, and our hunger is the symbol of it all.
On the polar end of the spectrum, eating disordered people get off by controlling their hunger. Why? Hunger represents their pervasive feelings of self loathing and inadequacy. It represents fears and anxieties, too, (especially if carb sensitive as many are). By mastering their hunger, they are "owning" their baggage.
Then LC comes and liberates us, telling us we are good, there is nothing wrong with us, that food is okay and we are okay. We were told we had a metabolic disease and that's why we were weak and out of control with our food; our hunger is not a symbol of us as "the obese stereotype", it is not a symbol of our intrinsic immorality (gluttony).
Speaking personally this felt so much like a revelation, it was like a religious awakening, I was saved and then "reborn" carbohydrate conscious
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Or lets assume for a second you are a person without much stigma for being fat - you wanted to drop 30 or 20 or no pounds, you do LC for other health benefits like blood sugar control, energy, whatever. If you had blood sugar problems, then it's likely that you know the terror and panic "life or death" hunger state of a hypoglycemic attack. If you were like me, it means you lived your life "dreading" in fear, when you would "become hungry". I never knew what hunger was until I controlled my blood sugar; all I knew was irrational desire for food and a panic/urgent state characterized by a feeling of being anxious, out of control, shaking badly, and just falling apart.
I am reading a book called the "highly sensitive person", recommended to me, and it says that HSP experience the sensations of hunger much more deeply than usual. Now, if you have hypoglycemia on top of that (which I would describe as "a hunger to prevent what the body perceives as death"), imagine how that would make you feel. I notice many of us incline to introverted/sensitive/perceptive dispositions (even if not extremely so). For us, our experiences are felt very deeply, and we have learned to be
afraid of the trauma of hypoglycemia.
For you, hunger may not represent imparted and engendered low self worth (like it does for the obese person), but it represents a terrifying loss of control and well being that is a hypoglycemic blood sugar crash. You associate hunger (a normal low energy state signal, a normal function of the body) with the feeling of poorly controlled blood sugar (a life-threatening, abnormal, low energy disease). When someone tells you to restrict calories, you think back to how you felt then, and you assume it is the same. I would liken it to how a sexual abuse victim feels about the prospect of consensual relationships. They just cant get passed the violence and trauma
paired with sex, and they have a profound instinctual aversion to sex in any form.
We all have some kind of issues with food, all of us on this forum. I don't htink it's possible to be fat or have experienced uncontrolled carbohydrate sensitivity without developing some kind of hangups about food, hunger (and if obese, self/self worth).
There is a LOT of emotional baggage being poked and prodded here when someone tells a LC dieter they need to count calories to lose weight. That's the real issue: our unresolved issues.