Wed, Mar-22-06, 23:35
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Senior Member
Posts: 155
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Plan: South Beach
Stats: 215/215/140
BF:
Progress: 0%
Location: Northeast PA
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my fiance is very supportive of me and does LC intermittently...he helps me the most (even when he isn't LCing) because he is sooo much better at cooking than i am and so creative with food...if it weren't for him, i would have been eating nothing but salad, tuna and scrambled eggs since january...the first few months that we went "LC shopping" we spent hours in the grocery store going up and down the isles going "can i have this? can i have that?" for almost everything on the shelves...we grabbed a set of measuring spoons in the baking isle just to carry around with us so we could get an idea of how much one Tbsp of peanut butter or salad dressing is...it was a lot of fun and a neat bonding activity for us...now that we are both losing a little weight, he likes when i wrap my arms around him because they go all the way around and i can sit on his lap without his legs falling asleep
he doesn't do anything that is unsupportive...he's never been the food police (he has no room to talk!), but i wish he would be a little less stingy with the compliments...if he notices something good, i wish he would say something about it...but i think that's just his personality because he does the same thing whether i'm fat or thin
my other issue is with sex...this is probably TMI, but...i like sex a lot and when i'm thinner we do it a lot...the fatter i get, the less we have and its not because of lack of effort on my part...to me, it feels like he's not attracted to me anymore...and that opens up a whole host of other insecurity issues and my self esteem takes a huge dump...i know its nothing that he did or didn't do, its just that once you get caught in that downward spiral sometimes its really hard to get out of it
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