Sat, Nov-13-10, 00:31
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Senior Member
Posts: 2,834
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Plan: modified Atkins
Stats: 252.4/171.2/166
BF:40.74/27.63/25
Progress: 94%
Location: Norcross, GA
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jkkeen
OMG. Missa, I am so sorry you have to deal with BS like that on a regular basis. Let me just say he would completely deserve it if you did....
I have been in this predicament (not a "you should be better", but a complete apathetic attitude as to whether I even take a shower or not!?) I will tell you that I think you should A: do something about it right now...before it gets worse or any more anger is harversted ...B--LEAVE HIS SORRY ASS..let him see what it feels like when you put ur foot down.
Just please don't waste any years of your life being unhappy; it is too fleeting. Also, staying in it "for the kid/kids" is a farce. I am so sorry your husband is sucha complete effing douche. A 28 yr. old friend of mine just passed away.....his life is gone in an instant.
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Oh yeah, I'd totally leave him. Really he is a good dad, but I'd leave if my ducks were in a row. I'm in a 10-month unpaid internship in order to complete my graduate degree. I'm 2.5 months into it. If I don't complete it, I can't graduate. If I can't graduate, I can't support my child on my own. The plan is to financially prepare myself first, because I absolutely refuse to allow my child to suffer more than necessary in the process. Hopefully that makes sense.
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