Oh, I got it now, Benay! I so understand: last year around this time I fell into a similar hellhole.

Me and DH was terribly sick with an awful virus. He's got a chronic condition and was down for the count. I was stretched to transparency with caretaking and running all the errands and my full time job. So, I just ran into the grocery store and grabbed frozen meals. DH did all right, but for me it was disastrous.

I chose organic and gluten free, and even though this pushed my carb count to 100, I thought I was okay because I wasn't gaining any weight. BUT it gave me an incredible autoimmune flare.

Learned my lesson