Im sorry U dont have a supportive family or should I say sorry U have a disfunctional family??? Im 37 and its just been last couple yrs I have realized that I grew up with a very cold-unloving, critical father. He was my dad so I always thought he was right about everything. BUT I never recieved priase from him only critisim. In fact now that I have gotten to a healthy weight his remarks are ~!$%#^^$^& you are too thin! But never once during my weight loss did he say "wow U are doing great I am proud of you" I am learnly slowly I DONT have to please him anymore but its a hard lesson to learn. DO you [or anyone else reading this post} constantly feel that maybe you should change your goal weight and try to lose just a little more? And do U think that even by losing a little more we will be happy even with that? Just my thoughts.