I'm lucky to be married to a man who still chases me even after a 100# weight gain. Looking buff is not my ultimate goal, I want to be healthy and able to move easier. Being able to buy rack clothing is a bonus and nothing more. I don't know how old you are but I remember when beautiful was full figured like Marilyn Monroe, Jane Mansfield. Every year people get fatter and the ideal body gets smaller. Some of these models are sickening to look at. No offense taken by the way.