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Old Thu, Mar-14-19, 11:31
CityGirl8 CityGirl8 is offline
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Originally Posted by nawchem
Yesterday after going home early to take roommate to work, being told I can spend the next day teaching how to use a computer and then waiting 40 min to pick up her last night. I felt this arrangement wasn't going well (I was pissed )
You really, really need to set some limits with her about when and under what conditions she can ride with you! You are not her chauffeur. Don't go home from anywhere to pick her up! If you are leaving from home and she is ready when you are leaving, she can go with you. Tell her that this will not be every day. Let her know the night before. If you are going home from work instead of elsewhere and she is ready when you are leaving, she can go with you. Tell her that this will not be every day. If she's not ready, just leave. If you're not at home, don't go back. If you continue to act like her chauffeur and let her treat you like you are, then you will never fix the situation. Stop acting like she's entitled to treat you the way she is!
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