I was martied to a person who only thought a woman was attractive if she was literally skin and bones. I was very thin when I married him but that was because I had been bulimic and anorexic for many years, an extremely unhealthy situation. But I looked good!! As I gained a bit of weight over the years I knew that he was no longer attracted to me since he made that clear. During marriage counseling after 26 years together, he tried the "I'm just concerned about your health" speech. Right in front of the counselor I said " Cut the bullshit. You wouldn"t care if I was dying of cancer if it meant I was thin". I realized our marriage had no future when he agreed that I was right. I am now in a relationship with a man who likes me whatever way I am. For the first time in my life.