Lot's of people say "Don't you look healthy!" if they have'nt seen me for a while and i know it is code for "Gee you have put on weight". I know this because the same people will say "Wow, you are looking good. You have lost weight!" if they see me and I have lost weight.

Only once did someone ask me when the baby was due! I think he was sooooo mortified when i told him I was overweight that he will never ask any woman that again without checking out the pregnancy test first!!

People do judge me initially on looks but I just bowl them over with my personality (not my weight!!) before they can lable me as fat and lazy. At my work I am one of the'movers and shakers' for positive change so if my fat 'moves and shakes' abit too so be it!!

See ya,
Kezza