You are so correct, when you say are we afraid that we can't get to goal. I try not to think to much about it. I am afraid of failing and people noticing it. I am afraid to purchase new clothes and find out 6 months from now it was a waste. I am afraid of losing weight and feeling the same inside. I wish people would get over this weight obsession. STOP MAKING IT A BIG DEAL IF SOMEONE LOSES WEIGHT OR NOT!!! THANKS FOR THE COMPLIMENT, BUT I'M THE SAME PERSON. BEAUTIFUL, SMART, AND SEXY. I just happen to be 40 + lbs smaller and more healthier. It would be nice if we can re-train people to say "you certainly look a lot more healthier" or some other comment other than the weight thing.

Thanks anyway!!!