You know you are certainly right. I don't like the attention. Whenever I put on something that "fits" I feel self-conscious and I think people are looking at me. There are these guys at work that notices everything. They make a big deal at noticing how you look and complimenting me on the new look. This makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. I know they mean well, but it pisses me off, because I'm the same individual with or without the weight.

My dear husband and the men in the office tells me that I should purchase smaller and more revealing and fitted clothes.

I just feel safe in my comfortable unnoticeable wear.