Yes, all very true. And it can get complicated. I am losing and want to lose, but I am also having a hard time getting enough food and I'm losing a little too quickly for my taste due to problems I am having with my food allergies becoming more sensitive. I have to eat everything fresh right now - no prepared food like sausage because of the spices. So, yes, it's fine for me to be losing but I'm also struggling medically in a real way. Not looking forward to comments at all, though none have happened yet even though I've lost about 30 pounds since the start of the year.

Nobody should ever mention another person's weight ever.