It’s horrible the traps. I struggled to feed first with his tongue tie for about a month before it was picked up. Second I saw had it at birth and tried to refuse to leave hospital but since they’d already done some top up formula feeding were happy to send us home because we knew he’d take formula if bs didn’t work out. I moaned and cried on the phone to all of them and got it snipped a few days later.

I asked for frozen donor breast milk top up feed instead of formula but they said, no, it was only for prem babies. My friend worked on the ward and said the donor breast milk almost never gets used at all and just gets thrown out after a few months in the freezer. :-(

DS2 is full of food allergies, gets ill and barely grew for 8 months. I’m still bf him, he’s over 2. I’m scared to stop in case his symptoms return.