Hey, We have something in common, im BLOND too. LOL & my boyfriend has to hear it on a daily basis too.. and not just starting this diet,, for the last 5 years i think he's has to hear this. Gosh im tired. I just want it to be like all the other LOSERS here.. losing so fast and look so good. you know. Im willing to put forth all my efforts if i see a little bit of a change for motivation. I can't bear to lose only 2-3 lbs a month. My lanta!!!! Calgone take me away! heheeh. Well... Good luck to both of us! i'll chat with you soon.