Ms Arielle, I made a promise a long time ago that I would try real hard to not be a jerk here. I want to explain my point of view and I want others to understand, but if I keep this up here it's gonna make me look like a jerk. I see that you really want to understand and I really want to explain. I'm gonna write in my journal and you can join me there and I promise I will not be a jerk.