I hope she feels better soon. And I hope you don't feel too guilty for your inevitable "Well now!" feelings because those are inevitable no matter how she's suffering or how scary it is. The reality is that no one can really predict or know and she probably is doing more damage than she thinks with those grains but the real, immediate thing now is all the stuff they will want to put her on. I don't really have any advice. I have a friend in the same boat and they put her on everything, just threw everything at her. She's in cognitive decline, IMO, from the meds and it's hard to watch.