One thing I've noticed and I don't know if I like it or not but when I got fatter, I became almost invisible like men shutting the door in my fact etc....I'm married so I'm not looking for attention....
Yesterday when we were out eating I noticed these two men eating near us, only because when I got up to get a to-go box, both of their heads turned, "checking me out".
I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not.
It's takes some getting used to, again......