Originally Posted by Judynyc

This is true to a degree.
What about all the people( of varying ages) who have had tons of experiences and yet keep doing the same things over and over and over again......expecting a different result?
When do they get it? IMO, they'll get it when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of change.
I think that in general, the older we get, the more experiences we have to draw and learn from. There are some younger people who will get it but not the majority.

I know that for me, I didn't really get it about changing myself until I started out this time when I was 54 yrs old. IMO, thats old!