Dear Victoria, Many thanks for answering this. I'll get your e-mail off your profile and have her e-mail you. Like I said she is very sensitive but you can relate I'm sure. It helps to have someone to share ideas, thoughts and woes with another. Mom is mom no matter what you try to do!I'm a cool mom and we get along great I just thought i t would be easier to have someone close to her own age going through the same problems. thanks again--happy carbing. Ive got lots of great recipies if you need any for anything. Mary Laczkoskie