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Old Mon, Dec-06-10, 17:53
bobiam bobiam is offline
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Originally Posted by samika
my cousin got gastric bypass today and didnt tell anyone> I heard it thru the grape vine and i feel so furious..she says she tries diets and they dont work and she goes to millions of drs. so each one can tell her that her new ailment is from obesity so that insurance will pay for surgery. This is from someone who already got the lapband and failed so miserably that she got that removed 4 yrs later. And got that for free too. She doesnt even try...it makes me sooooo mad because here i am fighting all the way and she just got the easy way out..i really hate her right now..i know i sound jealous and i guess i am..i wouldnt get the surgery, im just i dont know...jealous>>thanks for lettin me vent

Neither surgical procedure is without risk and IIRC, you basically end up on what amounts to a LC diet for the rest of your life anyway. So why bother with the surgery if you end up eating the LC way in the end after all?

People do stupid stuff all the time. you cannot protect them from their own stupidity.

Let it go and wish her the best. She may need your help at some point down the road and be in a state where she is willing to accept that help.
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