He used to look at porn occasionally, but doesn't anymore. I'm more computer savvy than he is, so I know how to check up on it. (And he knows I check up on it.) The last time he looked at porn that I can tell was 11/29 of last year... because the baby and I were at my grandmother's for Thanksgiving and he didn't come with us.

I had the doctor check his testosterone levels at one point, because he also has anger issues that I considered abnormal. His levels came back fine, so I assume it's all psychological. He was a virgin when we started dating (and he's actually 10 years older than me) and is very religious, so he had this "sex is bad" mentality beat into him pretty much his whole life. I think some part of the problem is stemming from him being unable to get over that, but I don't think it's a big part of the problem.

Whatever his problem is, it's really complicated. I don't think it's just me and the way I look and I also don't think it's just the religious stuff. I'm usually pretty intuitive about psychological stuff (I'm training to become a psychologist), but even I haven't been able to figure this one out. :/

But I agree... Getting turned down all the time... It got old. I did that for a couple of years, and gave up trying. I only initiate it when I'm desperate.