That really really sucks! You don't deserve that at all. You know you are better than him and that he is very wrong, right? Still, I think I would be devastated too if my husband told me that. I hope he comes to his senses and realizes what a great woman he has! keep looking out for you and find your own ways of validating yourself. You are doing a fantastic job. I hope the therapist is helping and giving you some advice. hugs!