Pamlynn - I do not want to discourage you from being the person on this site, but it really is your son who needs to be here or on another site. I say this because you need to steel yourself that this is his challenge more than yours. It is great having a mother help, but it is not the mother who needs to feel responsible for what happens. I am an older person, and my kids have have 'issues', but they have to be the ones to respond to them, I can only help, and that if they are willing.