Thanks for the support and suggestions. I feel foolish after writing about this "problem" b/c it seems like a completely dumb reason to be worked up. You are right. They ARE trying to make accommodations for me, and if it isn't perfect, it also isn't going to kill me. There should be something to tide me over, and I just need to accept the fact that I am not always going to have control over what I eat. This is a big issue for me, and one I like to keep private. That's why I get so stressed out about things like tonight. I am just going to relax and do the best I can, and enjoy myself.