It doesn't really surprise me either, but I'm sorry you've experienced it.

Please don't give up, and don't feel you have to wait until you're 'thin'.

I met (on the internet) and married my husband at almost the size I'm at now, and he adores me at every size. He's a little big himself, but he's also an entrepreneur with a PhD in Physics.

There are good ones out there who will love YOU, and enjoy whatever wrapper you happen to be in at the moment.

I had to add:



You wouldn't want to marry anyone who'd make those comments publicly about *anyone*. Sounds like a man looking for a nice DOORMAT!