DON'T WORRY! You can eat anything that is local OK that she will put in front of you. You and your hubby KNOW what you can and cannot have and have hopefully already incumbered this. You're not doing this to change HER life, but your own. Just a polite, no thank you, I'll take another of this tho and the meal is over. IL can be difficult. But I know you can get through this! STAY STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!