Originally Posted by rpavich

I have to chime in here...from my perspective; when you love someone for real...you love them and not their weight...
My wife is the most beautiful woman I've known not only for her outside but her "inside"...no matter what she weighs...it's her laugh, values, the way she looks at me, the little things she does for me...she really is the best thing that ever happened to me...and I would NEVER tell her I didn't want to have sex with her because of her weight...(come to think of it; most men would be glad if their wife wanted it at all!)

Just venting here...don't let it bother you....it's his problem, not yours....

bob