well, to make a short answer long..... when i was younger (well, let's just say before kids) i always looked at my hair. i had really good late 80's hair. then after kids, in the beginning, i was always looking to make sure i didn't have baby barf down my back, and to check out the bum (it got bigger w/ each one) then after the second kid, i would look to make sure i had clothes that at least matched and that i remembered to wear my shoes instead of my slippers. kid three, i think i stopped looking, or stopped going to malls, don't remember which.
now, i am always checking out the belly pouch (which bf says is sexy, YEA RIGHT, but thanks for trying) and to make sure i remembered to brush my hair.
so.... that's my answer, but when i've been strength training and lcing long enough, i'll be checking out my Madonna arm and Janet abs
brenda