As soon as I stayed away from the sugar, bread and milk, the pounds just started melting off. I really didn't know if I could actually stick with it since I've never been on a diet before, but because the bacon, cheese and salad allowed, I felt totally satisfied. Thought I would really miss the milk, as I was a huge milk drinker, but haven't had a drop for 6 mo.
I probably would have lost more, but I don't exercise and don't drink enough water----I TRY, but prefer coffee (decaf) or DietRite cola. I'm sure I use too much Splenda too, and this probably keeps me from continuing to lose at a faster pace, but I'm kind of in a learning mode right now to see what I can do or not do (eat).
I will probably use some of the tips I've found on this board to gear things up again so I can drop another 10 lbs before Christmas. Believe it or not, I go to my ex-husband's house for the family Christmas party and since I know all the ex-inlaws were pretty shocked at how fat I'd gotten (the last 2 years), I would love to show up in a snappy THINNER outfit this year.
I've never done the HRT thing (until I created HUMOR replacement therapy) because 13-14 years ago, when my periods just stopped, it seemed easier to just take nothing than to decide whether I wanted the risk of cancer or heart disease. Actually, I guess I was risking heart disease by NOT taking hrt, according to the theories back then, but I remember that I considered my family's history and figured I had a pretty good chance of not having it anyway. Didn't have cancer in my family either, but that was a bigger risk to me. Of course the news this summer made me happy I had not ever taken it.
I had about 5 years of intense hot flashes, but just muddled through. I don't remember having night sweats, but some women suffer terribly with them..... one of the "problem solvers" on my site has been a big hit.... it's a flat pillow-type thing that you slide inside your pillowcase and it helps keep your temperature at a moderate level during the night.
Anyway, love your attitude! I feel that plays a HUGE part in how we get through everything in life!
Dee
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