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Originally posted by fridayeyes
Hi, Levi,
Having dispensed with the shinai, I can now proffer the other mode of enlightenment.
Your post violated two basic tenets of politeness: familiarity and tact.
Familiarity is the idea that the better you know someone, the more personal the questions you may ask without offending.
Tact is the ability to know what is likely to be offensive or provocative and to choose your words so as to present the most benign interpretation.
When familiarity is low, tact must be high or offense is given.
Friday
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Perhaps the overreaction of the Americans was caused by their sensitivity to the word obese.
After all, this is a nation where e.g. the word menstruation isn't said out loud, but referred to as the TOM (time of the month). Or when you're blind, you're visually challenged. Instead of obese, they are gravitationally challenged.
Frankly, I consider myself to be obese, as I have 35,5% body fat (measured again today).
I don't know the tables for BF% but I just did a test for Body Mass Index and it results in 31,2.
The table reads the following
Lower than 18: underweight
18-24,9: normal
25-29,9: overweight
30-39,9: obese (obesitas)
>39,9: morbidly obese (morbide obesitas)
Luckily they are a bit off the mark as I have a lot of lean body mass (around 50 kg out of 78) and I'm in the overweight group..
For years I'd react very emotionally when people would have said to me that I'm obese, but a couple of things cured me...
1 a visit to the USA, where I saw more obese people in 1 hour than in all of my life in Europe or Australia/NZ
2 a love of sports.. so I may be obese, but I'm good at cycling and love climbing mountains..
To me, the main cause of obesity in the USA is probably the huge servings you get in restaurants loaded with the wrong kind of foods. Same for the size of packages.
I was startled by the lack of good and fresh vegetables and fruit, which are also very expensive in the USA.
My background is a bit similar to what the others say: told to eat everything on the plate because of the starving kids in Africa. I would skip breakfast and lunch, so my only meal of the day would be dinner which I didn't even like that much...
Now I'm trying to eat 6 meals a day of 300 kcals and feel stuffed.. but interestingly also hungry once the next meal comes around..
Be grateful that the culture in Europe (Germany) is still a fairly healthy one, but this is something which unfortunately is changing rapidly. I'm seeing some women in my fitness club that could easily be mistaken for American women.. however, I'm very happy they take the steps to do something about it.. Being very obese is less socially accepted in Europe as well, but being a tad overweight is not something we obsess over...
Hope i didn't offense anyone again, I just wanted to say what I experienced during my travels in the USA of approx. 1 year... btw, Americans are among the friendliest people I ever met (except for Canadians, New Zealanders, Ozzies and Cubans which come equal or before).