Sun, Jul-27-14, 15:11
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The Patient Loser
Posts: 1,457
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Plan: LCHF/keto
Stats: 165/159/135
BF:
Progress: 20%
Location: Riverside County, CA
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Originally Posted by ojoj
Yep, IMO sugar/carbs are as addictive as alcohol! My father was an alcoholic and I often remember him telling us he was just going to have one..... but that one was never enough, he seemed to go onto "auto pilot". Just like I did when I had just one chocolate bar.
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I've been there too. Thankfully I've got the alcohol under control to where I stick to my limits (I really hate feeling drunk and/or hung over). I always knew I had an issue there, but never with food. I can totally see how someone could be completely blind to their own addiction.
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Originally Posted by ojoj
My daughter is the same. My son bought the donuts again today, as he always does for him and his dad to have while they watch the grande prix. Today he hid them!!! Unfortunately my daughter got paid for her part time job yesterday, so she headed out to the local shop to feed her habit. What can I say to her??? I did give her a skirt of mine (thats a tad too big for me) that I know she likes. Its not going to fit her, but I've said nothing
Jo xxx
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I really feel for you here, Jo, because it is terribly difficult to watch our children make the wrong choices--or at least the choices we've taught them to avoid. I have a similar situation here with my children, nothing to do with food or weight, but still just as worrisome.
I'm sure someone has told you this already, and perhaps you've already mulled this idea over, but as hard as it is, we have to allow them to make their own decisions. A very smart lady told me recently that our kids WILL come back to what we've taught them. I believe that our kids just want to find their own way with no help from us, but once they realize they need what we've been teaching them, they'll know what and who to fall back on for help.
Stay open, sweet mama, and try not to be too negative toward her. You WANT her to come back to you when she needs your help. BIG BIG hugs.
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